Are you good at sex?

Have you ever wondered if you are good at sex? Want to be an excellent lover? Here are a few tips to enhance your bedroom game.

1. Have you honestly communicated what you want during a sexual encounter? Telling your partner clearly what you hope to feel and experience can help y’all enjoy yourselves. Be sure to ask curious, open-ended questions to encourage your partners to be brave and share what they want too

2. Be flexible! I don’t mean physically (though some pre-sex yoga can really help) Trying to stick to a rigid idea or pushing yourself to achieve a certain outcome can dimish the authenticity and reduce the experience of being present and engaged.

3. Have you checked about you and your partners sexual safety? Worries about unwanted pregnancy, STIs, and unexpected fluid contact are not sexy. Bonus points if you checked about latex allergies and volunteered your own sexual safety profile.

4. Last but not least, please agree on a safeword ahead of time. Safewords are not just for kinksters or folks doing sexually non-conventional practices. Everyone deserves an emergency brake. Safe words can be used to end an encounter suddenly if needed, but also can be used to take a quick pause and check in. Water breaks, changes in position, or other changes can be navigated with ease by using a safeword.